Janice Williams Loves Austin

December 30, 2007

Me and Billy Gibbons and Dusty Hill

Filed under: Music, Radio stuff — Janice @ 11:44 pm

Just a couple of weeks ago I wrote about Billy Gibbons taking the stage with Heybale at the Continental Club. My husband Mark was on stage as the drummer (subbing in for Tom Lewis) playing along with the best classic country band in Austin AND Billy Gibbons AND Brad Paisley. That was quite a night. Seeing Billy Gibbons up close again made me remember my first experience seeing ZZ Top in concert in 1979 or so. I knew I had pictures from that night somewhere, but even a trip to the attic didn’t turn them up. Tonight, I cleaned the office closet, which is stuffed full of genealogy, writing, love notes from Mark, art supplies, Let’s Learn About Austin source material, and PHOTOS, lots and lots of photos. I happened upon a stack of “radio pics” and there it was. The evidence of my first meeting with Billy and Dusty and Frank. I say evidence, I might have to get someone else that was there to swear this is me. Anyone that knows me know might not recognize the young Janice Williams.

Billy and the girls

Okay, that was a trick. I’m not either one of those girls. I have no idea who they were. I have a feeling they weren’t Amarillo girls. I think they came with the tour or were brought in. So, the real young Janice:

Billy and us

Can you tell which one I am in that group? I’m the girl drinking the TAB! I just noticed that. I’m afraid that shows the age immediately. At least it is a can and not one of those bumpy-textured bottles that I gagged on for the first 20 years of my life. Thank god for Diet Coke . . . but I digress.

I was working at the time at KPUR in Amarillo (1440 AM). This was probably the first big concert that I got to go to as a disc jockey. And backstage! I had had a little bit of backstage experience at my first radio job (KBUY-Amarillo), but this was my first rock show.

Who is with me and Billy? Dan Wilson on the left. He was my boss and afternoon drive at the time (I did nights). Dan and I later did the morning show together for a couple of years. He’s a big shot in San Antonio in Hispanic radio now. I haven’t seen him in years. Behind me is Dean ? somebody. He did the news at the station and I’ve lost all track of him. Down front, appearing to pass out, is Jack Randall, real name Jack Light (which I always thought was the better name). I think Jack worked weekends back then, but he later did all-nights for the station and we worked together for years. He is still in Amarillo and works for the newspaper, last I heard. How about the glasses on Dan and Billy? Thank goodness I had on my contacts or I would have had my big ugly glasses, too. They were in style. Seriously! So was the velveteen blazer I am wearing (which coordinated with the turtleneck better than it appears, I hope).

And one more picture with me and Jack and Dusty Hill, doesn’t he appear to be the happy one?

Dusty Hill and us

Take note of how short their beards were at the time.

Deguello coverAs for the concert, it was really one of the most memorable concerts I had ever seen. The album Deguello had come out in the summer of 1979, just as I started at the station. I can remember how the album cover smelled! It was not just the typical cardboard, it was very shiny and had a distinctive plastic smell and was sort of embossed. We played “I Thank You,” “Cheap Sunglasses” and “I’m Bad, I’m Nationwide.”

And who opened the show that night? Austin’s own Van Wilks, who was also managed at the time by Bill Ham. I met him for the first time at the Geezinslaws’ CD release party at the Texas Roadhouse in early 2006. He played guitar on their classic version of “Stairway to Heaven.” Very nice guy. And I have a picture of us together somewhere in this house, too.

I’m discovering a problem with this blogging thing . . . there’s always another picture or story I want to share! Now that I’m writing this story, I’m also remembering the great autograph I got from Billy Gibbons that night. It had cactus and shadows and took up the whole page. Where have I put these things? I look forward to the day that all my papers are enshrined in the Janice Williams Memorial Library. It will be wonderful when someone else has catalogued them all and I can easily go find every picture and memory.

Liars

Filed under: Radio stuff — Janice @ 1:24 pm

My blood is boiling over this news article about a mother in Garland (DFW) who lied to help her daughter win tickets to see Hannah Montana (or whatever that kid’s real name is). How lousy is that?

Not long after I got fired I made a list of things I would NOT miss about radio. I guess this is one that I missed . . . people who lie to win contests. And it happens, it really happens. That is why I tried to never set up a contest where you could “plead your case” with a sob story in order to win.

Also the beggars. EVERYTIME we announced there was a Willie Nelson show, I would get calls, days before the show even, saying, “Oh PLEEEEEAAAZZZZZZZ, it’s all I’ve ever dreamed of, to see Willie. My whole life I’ve wanted to see Willie.”  Really? Seriously? Then maybe you could have put away a dollar a month your whole life and bought this ticket? And he’ll be back next year, too, maybe you could plan in advance and buy a ticket like real people do? I remember the first time a Willie show came into my world and I know I went to the West Texas State box office and bought a ticket. And I didn’t have a job or income! (okay, I was 16)

And, yes, we’d get the “sick child” letters, too. And do you know how lousy it made me feel to have to say no? I don’t know if they were legitimate or not. And I didn’t say no to all of them either. Sometimes I could see there was a legitimate need and I didn’t know who to direct these people to (not for tickets, for real needs) so I would help them out. But when people started pleading their case for tickets with a sick child it really irritated me.

I remember this last trip that Rascal Flatts made through Austin. I got a request for tickets from someone outside of our listening area that obviously didn’t even know we didn’t play Rascal Flatts, pleading to make a dying kids dream come true by giving them tickets.

If you anticipate a day coming where you would need tickets for someone that is sick or needy, you need to establish a relationship with a disc jockey right now. That is my advice to you. Hundreds of people know that we had a relationship because they called or emailed. If any of those people had made me aware of a sick child, and THEN came a day when they asked for tickets, I would have been much more inclined to help.

It developed a very very good sense of the bullshitter listening to callers over the years. I’m wondering now how I could put that “ear” to use in a new job.  IRS?

December 29, 2007

San Fernando II

Filed under: Cemeteries — Janice @ 6:26 pm

If you’ve seen my main site you can see where I’ve spent my time today. It is getting closer to what I want it to look like – - – i.e. less “homemade” and more appealing to the eye. I wish I had taken some graphics courses somewhere along the way so I would know some of the basics. Since I didn’t, I know what I like, but I don’t know how to achieve it.

Today I am cleaning out a closet and I finally found a missing packet of letters. I thought these letters had somehow disappeared, but they showed up today. Hooray! These are letters from listeners. Not my local listeners here in Austin, these are letters from listeners when I worked for ABC Radio in Dallas. Most of these letters are from prisoners in other states. Some very interesting stories (and drawings, too!) there. Those stories still to come.

But first, another Christmas adventure. Last week my friend Marsha read an article in the New York Times about cemetery and grave decorating. You’ve read about my cemetery visits to see my own relatives, but I can also appreciate cemeteries where I don’t know a soul. The article said that the San Fernando II cemetery i San Antonio was one of the cemeteries that is being decorated more and more at Christmastime, despite the cemetery rules. Marsha and I decided we would drive down to San Antonio and see the cemetery.

I served as a poor navigator, but we eventually stumbled upon the San Fernando II cemetery. There is also a “III” and an original San Fernando Cemetery. The San Fernando Cathedral is Texas’ oldest church and has a fascinating history. We didn’t go to the cathedral downtown, but I hope to one of these days.

We soon saw what the article was talking about with graves decorated with poinsettias (real and silk), Christmas trees, presents, food, tinsel, and more. It almost has to be seen to be understood, but the pictures will give you an idea.

Cemetery Santa

This was one of the more simply decorated graves. I liked the little Santa doll on the marker.I hope I didn’t appear to be gawking or making fun of these graves while I was there (or now). I understand the need of the friends and relatives of these people to connect with them at the holidays. It is a way to include the whole family.
If you didn’t know about this custom,you might assume this was a new grave and the funeral had just occurred, leaving the flowers and decorations behind. But, no, this is just decoration for Christmas. Obviously, one of the more elaborate graves at San Fernando.
But this is my favorite:
Madonna

The statuary in this cemetery was beautiful, and I liked how this grave’s Madonna was included in the decoration. Bless the Mireles family. I hope they had a good Christmas.

I got home that afternoon and told Mark about our adventures. He asked whose grave we went to see. I explained that I didn’t know anyone that was buried there, I only went to see the decorations. Mark has always been quite supportive of my cemetery interest and has gone with me many times, even climbing high, chain-link fences, to get to the graves we wanted to see. But he thought this was pretty weird. Unusual, yes. Weird, I hope not.

I think this is a beautiful tradition, but I don’t know that I want it to catch on and be widespread. I wasn’t even able to get my house decorated for Christmas this year, I don’t know when I’d find the time to decorate graves, too.

December 26, 2007

And more Christmas

Filed under: Family — Janice @ 5:39 pm

Hope you’re not falling behind on reading the entries, this is the second today. . .

Just got this great picture of the “boys,” my nephews, Brandt and Connor. My sister and her husband and the boys and my mother all had Christmas at her home in DFW. After all of our traveling, we were happy to stay home, but also hated to miss the festivities there. My sister just sent the scrapbook of their day. Here the “guys” (they are certainly not boys anymore) show off the Baylor shirts we gave them. Brandt, left, is a sophomore at Baylor and on the crew (the rowing team). Connor, right, is one semester into the freshman year and just became a “community leader” or CL at Baylor. And that’s my mom observing.

My nephews

Post-Christmas Review

Filed under: At home, Family, Job search — Janice @ 11:15 am

How was your Christmas? Ours was a lovely day. The cinnamon rolls were good (though Mark still can’t taste anything) and the presents were lovely. Willie and Nathan Jr. were particularly delighted to discover money from Meema in their stockings. You can see the joy:

Willie loves his stocking

Willie, always benevolent and generous, offered the money to me and Mark to go see a movie on Christmas afternoon.

So we went to see Walk Hard: The Dewey Cox Story. This is a movie we’ve been looking forward to since the first commercial. With our love of musical history, it spoke to us! And it lived up to the hype. Funny, silly, but accurate in so many of the little details. Okay, Mark found a couple of inaccuracies. His sharp eye caught the fact that the lugs on the drums on the 1953 talent show actually hadn’t been on the market until 1955. And the cymbals the drummer used in the scenes from the 1970s were made by a company that didn’t exist until 1986. Heresy! I certainly hope the filmmakers will issue an apology.  After the movie, old Eagle-Eye and I came home to that wonderful tradition of an afternoon nap. Remember a few weeks ago when I told you that Dewey Cox was coming through Austin? There’s photos of that visit at the Dewey Cox website. Check the video in other cities, too.
One of the members of Mark’s band, Little Elmore Reed, Dale Spalding came over and enjoyed chili and wine and apple and pumpkin pie with us. He brought some documentary videos by filmmaker Les Blank. We learned about Lightnin’ Hopkins, New Orleans and the tribes of Mardi Gras, and Gap-Toothed Women. It was fun to have company on Christmas.

And just a note about radio . . .  I listened to KGSR Christmas Eve and heard Loris Lowe on the air. It was good to hear her voice. She got “let go” at KLBJ-FM in October. Was there a planetary disturbance that we weren’t aware of at the time? Something sure was making radio volatile. I knew that anyone on the air on KGSR is “live” and actually there in the studio (and that is much more rare than you could imagine) and I called her.

Loris and I met a few years back at a Reckless Kelly show at Stubb’s. I liked her right off the bat. she and I shared the introduction on stage that night. I learned later that she also plays accordion. I knew there was just something special about that girl! She’s working part time at KGSR while trying to find a full time gig. I wish her well in finding something. She has a great radio voice.

December 25, 2007

Christmas Day 2007

Filed under: At home, Family, Music — Janice @ 11:33 am

I hope you are having a wonderful Christmas Day. I have cinnamon rolls rising on the counter. Well, they are supposed to be cinnamon rolls. As I am prone to do, I didn’t follow instructions to the letter and forgot the cinnamon part. I sprinkled some on top and hope that’s all it takes. I think brown sugar rolls are good, too. They’ll be wonderful. All they are waiting on is for Mark to wake up. He is sick and suffering and stuffed up, but, thankfully, sleeping good right now. It was a late Monday night, as they all are, at the club he plays every week. That was a nice Christmas celebration, too.

I have every intention of writing about the Christmas party I went to Friday night at the home of Derailer Bryan Hofelt and last night at the home of Lucky Tomblin, and maybe I’ll get to those later this week. It has been a busy few days and I’m glad for the day of rest today . . . and no travel!

I have made list after list in the past few weeks of things I want to write about. And, like the cinnamon, they are not present at the moment. But one list I made was of my favorite Christmas songs and I want to re-create that list now and see how close I can get to remembering them all.

I love all of the Christmas carols. The Christmas hymns that are in the Baptist Hymnal that is sitting on my piano looking at me right now. Joy to the World, The First Noel, Silent Night. But my favorite of the hymns is It Came Upon a Midnight Clear. Just that phrase is such a perfect use of language, I think. Midnight clear. Doesn’t that bring to mind crisp, cold nights with stars everywhere and not a sound except the cattle breathing in the barn? I love that one. For that one, it doesn’t matter which version it is.

Everyone of my other favorites, it has to be “the” version, the one on the radio. The Eagles’ “Please Come Home For Christmas.” Okay, on this one, I do love the original Charles Brown and Willie, too, but I’ll take the Eagles because it was the way I heard it first. It came out in 1978, when they were at the peak of their fame, and it was a 45. It wasn’t available on an album or CD for years and years. I don’t think I even owned it until iTunes came along in the last couple of years (and even then I messed up and bought the live version before I got the “right” one). I had just begun my radio career in college and I got a job working all nights at KBUY in Amarillo. The KBUY experience is a story unto itself, but it was my first radio job and my first Christmas in radio and I was up there 36 hours a week playing great songs. This one came out and I fell in love with it. On the cover of the 45 was a picture of the guys in the band in swim trunks laying around a pool. A typical LA Christmas? I love those bells at the beginning and the end and each time I hear it I am back in that tiny shag-carpet-lined studio.

Happy Xmas by John Lennon (and Yoko). I don’t remember it from its release like I do the Eagles; it has just always been around. I played it many many Christmases on the radio in Amarillo and Dallas, though, and always feel a little sad when I hear ” . . . and what have you done?” Yes, the years go fast.

All I Want For Christmas Is You by Vince Vance and the Valiants. I used to see Vince Vance and the Valiants at the Texas Moon Palace in Amarillo. My friend, teacher, and fellow disc jockey Jamey had been a fan of theirs in El Paso and he was always trying to get me to go see them. Finally, I did and just fell in love with their show. I saw them once and then the band had a tragic bus accident that killed the guitar player and badly injured others in the band, including Andy Stone, the driving force of the band. I think we started playing this song on the radio at KPUR when it came out in the early 80s. It wasn’t until I started working in Dallas that I really realized that it was a hit on a regional, if not national level. Now, I think it is a standard at Christmastime all over the country. That is an amazing feat and I hope Andy is living large off of his royalties. He doesn’t sing the song (Lisa Layne is the name of the Valiantette that sings it), but Andy wrote this great, feel-good song. I don’t think I’ve ever seen them sing it live. The band still thrives in Louisiana, but I don’t think they ever play in Austin. If they do, go see them. It is entertainment. No, Entertainment. Capital E.

All I Want for Christmas Is You by Mariah Carey. Now that one came out of the blue for you, didn’t it? Yes, as much as I love country music, I love this song. I’m no Mariah fan, but I love this song. I was working for ABC Radio in Dallas when it came out and I loved playing it. That was long before it was in the movie “Love Actually,” but I love it in that movie, too. If one song has been playing in my head a LOT through this Christmas season, it is Mariah’s.

Okay, I just checked on the rising cinnamon rolls and those things are monsters! I have the best cinnamon roll recipe in the world (you can always google cinnabon copycat and find one . . . make sure it calls for pudding). Mark seems to be half awake and the kitties are begging to see what Santa brought them, so I will close with just those few songs. I think there were a couple more on the list I started one time. I will recommend Butch Thompson’s album “Yule Stride” as THE best Christmas album of all time. It is a Christmas must for me. And I wanted to have my list of my most-hated Christmas songs, but that wouldn’t be much in the spirit, would it.

So maybe more when time allows, but today is going to be a day of quiet and reflection and family and maybe a little Dewey Cox, too. Merry Christmas to you, dear reader, and thank you for being a part of my Christmas morning.

December 23, 2007

Slaws and Food

Filed under: At home, Family — Janice @ 11:21 pm

I thought all morning about the entry I would write about performing last night with the Geezinslaws at the Broken Spoke. I visited with Mr. White and nice listeners like Bob and Virginia and Rich. It will be a good entry, but I got busy instead making a turkey dinner and never got around to the writing.

For Thanksgiving, Mark and I had a hospital turkey dinner and no leftovers. On the drive home, we debated what constitutes the “must haves” of a good turkey meal. Yes, turkey and dressing are required, but also homemade rolls and pie. I added cranberry sauce, though Mark detests it. I have been considering making a turkey dinner since then and decided today was the day. I didn’t want to do it on Christmas because I really would like Christmas Day to be a day of rest.

No rest today. I cooked a big ol’ turkey, two pans of dressing, gravy, homemade rolls, candied yams (NO, no marshmallows, I don’t like that), green pea salad, green beans, ambrosia salad (yes, with marshmallows here), cranberry sauce, pumpkin pie and apple pie. I don’t think of apple pie going well with this kind of a meal, but Mark thinks apple pie should go with every meal, so I made it for him.

Some observations:

  • Carving a turkey and packaging up the leftovers is almost enough to make a vegetarian out of me.
  • Making everything time out so it is all hot and delicious on the table at one time is an art I have not mastered.
  • Making a great apple pie is an art I have mastered.
  • Making great dressing is an art I have mastered (I started when I was 10, so I am experienced at it).
  • It’s days like this that I wish we had a dining room. Eating in our kitchen while the counters were still piled high with pans and dishes kills the ambiance (so I sat with my back to it).
  • Using soda when the recipe calls for powder will ruin a batch of cornbread.
  • I don’t know how anyone keeps clean cookbooks. I know they make those stands that protect them and some people slip them into a plastic bag, but none of that would work for me because I’m flipping pages and looking at different recipes in the same book. The advantage, of course, is that the Joy of Cooking opens right up to the pie crust recipe because that page has been smeared with lard and flour over and over. (Disclaimer:  The Joy of Cooking does not advise the use of lard, that was my own secret ingredient discovery). And the recipe for homemade rolls in Better Homes and Gardens (the 1977 version) is all smeared with flour and water, too.
  • Aprons make sense. But I still don’t wear one.
  • This makes me appreciate Mom, Mamma Williams, Mamma Hallford, my sister Mackie, Aunt Leta, Aunt Dorothy, Aunt Louie, Mark’s grandmother Lena, his Aunt Carolyn, and every other woman in our families who has put together meals like this and made it look so effortless.
  • It is a lot more fun to enjoy the full turkey meal when someone else has prepared it (not that I’m complaining!).

December 22, 2007

A Treatise on Fried Chicken

Filed under: Family, Uncategorized — Janice @ 4:16 pm

It is time to get back to “normal” and write some more. I appreciate the comments and the e-mails about my cousin Judy.

But today I’m going to talk about fried chicken. Something that is all too rare in our modern society. I worry about a whole generation of children that think that chicken fingers or chicken strips or chicken what-have-yous are truly “fried chicken.” They simply are not. When I was a little girl . . . I’ll get back to that, but Mark and I have had some great fried chicken this week. Fried chicken that makes you want to move back to the farm and get up at dawn to plow and have that feeling of accomplishment at the end of each and every day. Or at least fried chicken that makes you want to pull out the cast iron skillet and see if I can do it myself.

Sweetwater, Texas, holds the distinction of having the only restaurant left in the world that can make fried chicken. That restaurant is Allen’s on the business route 20 through town. Next to a Sonic. I’m not real clear why anyone would eat at the Sonic when Allen’s is just next door.

I guess part of the reason is that Allen’s is only open on Tuesdays through Saturdays from 11 to 2. Fifteen hours of heaven a week. When Mark and I knew that we were going to be going to Amarillo for the funeral we wondered if we could have lunch in Sweetwater. Judging the distance, we could see that it was an impossibility for us to get up that early and make it there for lunch. Sigh. It sounded like such a great idea. So Tuesday we left for our trip and ate at Whataburger just up the road and headed north.

We hit Sweetwater about suppertime and debated whether to eat somewhere along the real route 20 or go into town and just see what was there. We opted to take the business route. We passed by Allen’s and sighed, wishing the dark building was bustling, but, no, it was closed. Mark said, “I’m going to pull into the parking lot, just to make sure we know their hours.” We pulled in and I looked across their small parking lot to another building with lights on and a crude sign that said “Allen’s Buffet 5-9 pm.” What’s that??? I said. To our eternal joy, Allen’s has a nightime buffet, just like the sign said. Different building, same food, just served buffet style. That’s good enough for us! We went in and ate fried chicken to our hearts content. Fried chicken that is on the bone, like God made it, and dredged in flour, not caked with an inch of some crispy batter concoction that is thicker than the chicken. I ate mine with honey. Man, it was my childhood all over again. When I was a little girl . . . No, I’ll get back to that.

We were happy and got on down the road and arrived in Amarillo at almost midnight. The next night, after the funeral, we headed out again and made it as far as Sweetwater (what a coincidence!) before we stopped for the night.

Thursday, 11 a.m. We weren’t the first ones in the parking lot, but the second. There was already a car and a couple sitting, waiting for the door to be unlocked at Allen’s. This is Allen’s:

Allen's Fried Chicken

When we walked in, the hostess/waitress hollers (you holler in Sweetwater), “How many ya got?” We each had two and they had us seated at a table for eight immediately. Then they started bringing out the food. The table was already set with a tablecloth and real dishes and silverware and those great goblet glasses like my Mamma Williams had. They are filling the tea glasses and piling the plates on the table before we could get the napkins across our laps. A plate piled high with fried chicken, bowls of sweet potatoes, regular potatoes, green beans, pea salad, potato salad, hot rolls, okra, greens or some kind, and more. I didn’t pay much attention to anything but the fried chicken. We dug in and visited with the couple from Blackwood, Texas, just south of Sweetwater about 30 miles.

Notice how Mark managed to stop and take the picture, but I remained intent on my chicken? Well, maybe I had stopped long enough to pick up a fork and try some of the corn, red beans, and everything else they kept refilling. Before we were through, our table had completely filled with two related couples of retirement age, the women wearing their Christmas poinsettia sweatshirts. There is something special about looking around a table and seeing eight adults eating greasy chicken with their fingers, just digging in.

Oh, and the cobbler! I stuffed until I was sick on the fried chicken, but then I stuffed some more on the peach cobbler. There are lots of good ways of making peach cobbler, but this was the kind with canned peaches and lots of hot, sweet syrup and good cinnamon-y dough and peaches. I think I ate a whole serving bowl on my own because she had to replenish for the rest of the table a couple of times.

Sigh. Eventually, Mark and I had eaten enough (and our six companions, even the ones that started after us, were through and gone), We paid that STEEP prix fixe of $8 (it used to be only $6), dropped a tip in the tip jar, and then couldn’t resist ordering a whole chicken fried up to go.

Happy? We were happy except for that fact that Sweetwater is just too far away to go for a weekday lunch.

So, back to when I was a little girl… My grandmothers were good cooks, but I don’t really have the memories of their fried chicken. But I remember Mother’s. Great, great fried chicken. On Sunday after church, we sometimes had fried chicken. It seemed to take an interminable amount of time to cook, but it was worth it. The pulley bone was always my favorite piece of hot fresh fried chicken (how come they don’t ever have pulley bones on the menu anywhere?). But if the chicken ever made it past lunch and was in the refrigerator later, I loved that cold chicken leg more than anything else. Especially when it had that one side that was crustier and maybe almost burned. Yum. Thank, Mom, for the great fried chicken, hot gravy, and “light bread.”

December 18, 2007

My dear cousin

Filed under: Family — Janice @ 3:05 am

I’ve thought today about this entry and how I could write about my cousin Judy. I don’t think that I can. Not and do her justice. Not tonight. Today is Judy’s birthday. Judy also died this morning at 3:30. We are leaving tomorrow to head to Amarillo for her funeral on Wednesday. My sister is already there, Mother and the boys are heading up from Dallas, and Mark and I are going together.

Judy has had breast cancer for more than three years. She has had it spread to her bones and had to have a thigh bone replaced. It has destroyed her liver. Her heart, the biggest and most loving heart a human could have, was weakened by the chemotherapy and she had to have a pacemaker. Finally, all of the weakening was more than she could bear.

When Dad had cancer and then Mother had cancer, Judy sent emails of encouragement from someone who knew all the ropes. Should knew the symptoms and the side effects. She was a cheerleader and a shoulder to cry on.

Despite being so sick, she hosted our family at her home after my grandmother’s funeral and again after Daddy’s funeral last year. Always a gracious hostess, she never acted as if it were a bother or acted as if it wore her out. . . though we know it did.

Since she got sick she has seen her son marry and he and his wife have a baby girl. And one of her daughters had her first baby. Judy got to see her other two grandchildren growing and blossoming. And she had a few more years with the husband that we all adore. The man who helped her, protected her, encouraged her, and finally married her. He has been a blessing to our family and we are all so glad they found one another later in life.
Judy

I took this the last time I saw her. She was weak and didn’t much feel like being at lunch with me and my aunt and her sister and the two husbands, but she was there and she laughed and we had a great visit. I really didn’t know it would be this soon until she was gone.

I’ve been thinking about how much Judy meant to me. She wrote funny, sweet emails. She taught me piano when I was in elementary school. Mainly, I have to appreciate her for opening my eyes to the world of pop music. She was a teenager when the Beatles came along. She was crazy in love with the Beatles, but had a healthy appreciation for the Beach Boys and the Four Seasons, too. When we went to visit Aunt Dorothy and Uncle Homer, we got to marvel at the posters on her walls and her scrapbooks of clippings about the Beatles and we listened to her records. She played me the whole side of Alice’s Restaurant and I thought it was the funniest thing I’d ever heard. If I hadn’t had Judy, I think I might not have really appreciated the radio and music until Bobby Sherman and David Cassidy came along, and then what kind of a music lover would I be today?

I will be mourning her loss with her entire Amarillo family who are as tight knit as a family can be. They’ve had Sunday lunches together with four generations for years and years. It’s a family that I marvel at and envy while I’m glad mine isn’t that way. While they are busy and modern and “normal,” they have a relationship that is a throwback to a simpler time. I am sad for me and my loss, but so much sadder for Aunt Dorothy because you should never have to lose a child, and for Judy’s sister Donna and Donna’s daughter Tracee. Donna and Judy and Tracee practically grew up together. And Judy’s own kids, Loren and Heather and Chris. They have wonderful spouses and beautiful children, but they have been through so much at such a young age.

You always hear people talk about someone that “everyone loved.” With Judy, it was an absolute fact. She was a wonderful listener and counselor and friend and conversationalist. I heard a Beatles song on the radio today and know that Beatles songs will always remind me of Judy. “You say goodbye, but I say hello, hello, hello.  I don’t know why you say goodbye I say hello….” It reminded me of the greetings and hellos she’s getting in heaven. We have to say goodbye now, but we’ll all say hello again one day.

December 16, 2007

Vacation

Filed under: At home, Family — Janice @ 11:01 pm

There’s been so much going on and so much to report, I could be here all night, but let me give you a quick recap of the annual Mark and Janice vacation. We set aside some days to go on vacation months ago and I put them on the calendar, not knowing that unemployment would come knocking on the door. We decided it was still important that we make a quick trip and that’s what we had.

First I went to Dallas earlier in the week and brought my mother home with me. Mom was going to act as kitty-sitter to grand-kitties Nathan Jr. and Willie while we were gone.

Friday, Mark and I hit the road… to downtown Austin. I wondered if we would have started our vacation in our hometown if we lived in any other city? But downtown it was with a big Mexican food lunch at Las Manitas. How many more lunches will I get there? I don’t know, so I loaded up on the chicken enchiladas mole again.

Janice at Las Manitas

We went to the Armadillo Bazaar on the opening day. A great place to be while it was cold and gray and rainy outside. I think we mainly found Christmas gifts for ourselves. I checked out the Texamericana booth. Texamericana is an organization created by musician Barbara Kooyman (remember when she did “The Futures So Bright I Gotta Wear Shades” in Timbuk 3?). Their purpose it to help independent musicians sell music and support public and independent radio stations all at the same time. Great mission. I’m going to be helping them at their booth on Thursday at night, Saturday in the day and then on Christmas Eve at night. I hope you’ll come by and see us at the booth. Cool people. Cool purpose.

We drove on to the metropolis of San Marcos and did some more shopping there at the outlet malls. More gifts for us! And we found a few gifts for some of the others on our gift list (which is, fortunately, very short).

Next up? Gruene. Mark and I had a lovely stop in beautifully decorated Gruene, Texas. You can’t help but be in the Christmas spirit there with the lights on the water tower and on all the old buildings lining the street. Now, for the sake of the story, I should tell you that we heard and saw Jerry Jeff Walker at his sold out show. I wouldn’t be lying if I said that, but it would be a little bit of a fib by omission. We had not planned to be in Gruene on this Friday night, so we didn’t have tickets. But we did hear Jerry Jeff because you can hear a band in Gruene Hall all over Gruene. And we even saw him and the band through the cracks in the walls/windows. Django Walker was playing along with Dad and we heard “Gettin’ By” (my new theme song), Up Against the Wall, and then Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, the classic that Jerry Jeff and Django recorded on the Gonzo Christmas album when Django was about 12 years old. We tried to eat at the Grist Mill, but their Friday night crowd was pretty stout, too, and we didn’t want to wait. So we had a beautiful night at the Grist Mill, Gruene Hall and listening to the music and we didn’t spend a dime!

Our destination for the night was Goliad. We have been to the presidio and mission on previous trips, but never when they were open for tours and that was where we wanted to be when daylight came. So we forged ahead and made our way across to Gonzales and Cuero and Goliad. The courthouses in all the little towns were beautiful. We really enjoyed seeing the nightlights in small town Texas.

The motels along the way weren’t much, so we did make it all the way to Goliad and to the slim choice of motels there. Very slim. Ah well, the unemployed can’t be staying at Marriotts and Hiltons on vacation. My Aunt Billie always brings her own sheets and blankets when she travels and never, ever, gets into a motel bed. This weekend I realized she may have a point.

Okay, let’s just skip on ahead. I don’t want to recall too much about the Budget Inn.

After the rain and the cold of Friday, Saturday was bright and sunny. Quite windy and the wind made it feel colder than it was, but at least the sun was out and it was dry. We had a lovely breakfast at the Emprasario Restaurant on the town square of Goliad. I recommend it. I felt like a food critic because we seemed to order one of everything and found it all to be delicious. Mark declared the refried beans the best he’d ever had.

On to the beautiful Nuestra Señora de la Bahía del Espíritu Santo de Zúñiga Mission. A beautiful place with an amazing history, going back to 1749. And the beginnings of Texas ranching were here as the priests and Spaniards and native Americans gathered cattle and raised them (even drove them to feed Spanish soldiers on the coast that were aiding in the American Revolution). We spent time in the chapel, lit a candle for my cousin who is very sick, and walked around the grounds imagining life there 250 years ago. We had a weaving demonstration from a park volunteer, too. I certainly knew what a spinning wheel was, but, honestly, I didn’t know how one worked. Now I sort of have an idea. It is hard to fathom what our forefathers had to go through to make a simple shirt.

On next to the presidio across the river. It also has a beautiful chapel that was for the soldiers of the fort and for the townspeople of La Bahia that sprang up around the fort walls.

The chapel

This is the chapel and fort that James Fannin and his men were held in and then massacred in March of 1836, just after the Alamo battle. We visited the chapel and toured the fort museum and were in awe of the restoration. The chapel is original while the rest of the fort had fallen into disrepair and had to be recreated.

Outside of the fort was a recreated home of General Zaragosa, the hero of the Battle of Puebla in Mexico when the Mexican forces defeated the French forces in 1862. That’s the battle that is celebrated on Cinco de Mayo. I had no idea that the hero of that battle was “a Texan.” Of course, he was born here when it was still Mexican territory.

We drove over to the monument honoring Fannin and his men . . . over 350 deaths in that massacre on Santa Anna’s order.

Still lots of daylight ahead of us and we had fulfilled our mission of seeing Goliad’s monuments. So why not go to the coast? We continued south through Refugio and on to Port Aransas. It is certainly the down season in Port A and a lot of businesses were closed. But we were mainly there to see the Gulf, which never closes. It has always amazed me that cars are allowed to drive on Mustang Island’s beaches and you can just drive and drive for miles. We headed south on the beach, stopped and walked a bit, and drove some more. The wind was blowing a gale along the beach and the waves were high. But the winds were blowing outward and were knocking the tops off of the waves and sending the spray backward. The sand on the beach was blowing and creating snaking along, dropping back into the ocean to be pushed back to the beach again.

Beach

Looks like we’re on a cruise, doesn’t it?

Enough beach and wind and cold, we headed to a restaurant. I think it was the Pelican or something like that (aren’t they ALL something like that at the coast). In their front window they advertised the music they bring in to perform and there was a Derailers t-shirt on display. It surprised me. I felt a million miles from home, but here was a shirt of my friends’ band.

We had some killer monster-sized shrimps and got our fill of the coastal life. It was 5:30. At this point we felt like we had done just about everything that needed to be done to feel like we were on vacation. So what to do? Head home, we decided. We’d rather sleep in our own bed than have another night at a Budget Inn (which we would NOT let happen, that’s for sure) and we came back to Austin. Mom didn’t even get her fill of kitty-sitting or enjoying our house. And she didn’t have time to get started on making more fudge and the traditional Christmas Chex mix.

So now it is time to think about Christmas ahead and all that takes place between now and then. There are Christmas parties, lots of great music, and I’m going to address Christmas cards at some point between now and Dec. 25, too. I’m glad to be home. Living in Austin is enough vacation for me.

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