Janice Williams Loves Austin

August 29, 2008

Nice Surprise

Filed under: Uncategorized — Janice @ 1:49 am

It may be a nice surprise to you that I’m even writing. I have become sporadic lately. The “workday” is getting longer and longer and making the fun time to write shorter and shorter.

I had a nice surprise myself tonight at Shady Grove, though. I introduced the opening band with Matt the Electrician (which I enjoyed very much and would recommend you go see at the Saxon on Monday nights). I don’t give my name when I do those introductions, I know I’m just a body to that audience and my name wouldn’t mean much. But I came back to my seat and had a tall man come over and say, “Are you Janice Williams?” Yes, I said. I expected this to be an old listener that was surprised to see me. But then he said, “I’m Scott Nelson.” I knew immediately who he was. We went to high school together 31 years ago. I may have seen him at a reunion in the meantime, he said he went to one or two, but I don’t remember. It was quite a surprise to see an old classmate from Canyon High School (Class of 77!).

I thought a lot about high school while I enjoyed a great show from Radney Foster. I was lucky enough to go to a school that was small enough that we knew everyone in our class, but not necessarily well. I kept trying to pin down how I knew Scott. Well, mainly I just new Scott because we went to school together for six years. Was his father a professor at WT? I can’t remember. He had an older sister that was in my sister’s class, I think, I’ll have to compare notes with her. Scott and I were in choir together for four years, I do remember that, so I’m sure we shared many experiences and great choir trips with Mr. Jennings and with Mr. McCause Galveston. But, when I try to remember a moment or a story, I am stumped. But, like I said, I knew him well!

I went over on the break and met his wife Martha and heard more about their three kids and his career in engineering and how his dentist is another of our classmates. I brought up some of our classmates that I keep in touch with, but he didn’t remember some of them. What surprised me was that he said he recognized my voice from the stage, not from having heard me on the radio (though he did know that I had been in Austin radio), but from high school. No, I wasn’t an orator or a person who played a speaking role at school and I wasn’t an actress. I suppose I was just loud and a talker. I suppose most of the senior class would agree on that.

August 26, 2008

Grammaryllis

Filed under: At home — Janice @ 11:21 am

Mark called it my “Grammaryllis.” It is an oxblood lily or schoolhouse lily and it is in bloom today. That makes me happy. We call it that because we got it from my great-grandma Williams, Daddy’s grandmother. Back in the 70s or 60s, she gave Mom some of these lily bulbs. Mom says she planted them and didn’t have any results. Grandma Williams died in August of 1978. Mom had expected these bulbs to be spring flowering, but spring came and went and no flowers. Then, just around the anniversary of her death, they appeared. So, to us, they’ve always been “great-grandma’s flowers.” Mark gave them the more clever name.

I got some from Mom and our farm and had them at our home in Carrollton. Then we moved them down here. They are always a surprise because they don’t put up leaves or foliage, they just suddenly appear with a bloom. I had them planted in a too-shady spot and had not had any flowers last year so I moved some to a front flower bed and forgot about them until today. Today I saw the cheerful little stalk with four blooms sticking out of the ground. I’d have to look up the date, but it think it was about 30 years ago this week that great-grandma died.

Pictures of it soon.

August 25, 2008

Connor’s Birthday

Filed under: Family — Janice @ 12:03 am

Today is my younger nephew’s birthday. He’s 19. I don’t quite know how these 19 years have sped by so quickly. He is the youngest of his class, having been born just before the cutoff. So last year he headed off to college while still only 17. Now he is entering his sophomore year at Baylor.

I have so many great memories of Connor. Despite having a quite talkative older brother, Connor managed to make his place in the family and find plenty to say. We laugh about when he was learning to crawl. He would crawl industriously around the house, but with his head facing straight down. He would inevitably bump right into a wall. Then he would stop, look startled, turn, and resume crawling. Seems like that is still how he deals with roadblocks… they never phase him. He turns and finds another way, without complaint.
When he played baseball on his Diamondbacks team in elementary school, I never could find him on the field. All the 7-year-olds look alike when they have on purple uniforms and caps. But if they were ever running, there was no doubt which child was Connor. He was the fastest runner on the field. Always.

Connor has always been a “giver.” On my 40th birthday, Mark had a big surprise party for me. When Connor heard they were going to my party, he insisted on finding me a gift, even though his mother told him they had a “family” gift for me. He went to the flower garden and picked blooms and pressed them under glass in a frame.
When he was 14, he asked for an electric guitar for his birthday. I visited about two months later. Already he was playing songs for me. And not just songs he had “learned.” You could ask him to play a song and he would just play it, without thinking. It was pretty incredible (still is!). I remember he was goofing around and put his new guitar behind his neck like Jimi Hendrix (one of his heroes at the time). I said, “Play ‘Deep in the Heart of Texas.’” He played it behind his head without having ever having picked it out before. Amazing.

He was the drum major for one of the biggest high school bands in the state for two years. As the head drum major his senior year, he took Coppell to the State band competitions and they were 7th in the state, I think. He learned a lot about discipline and leadership in that position.

Now he’s in college and he’s become a Community Leader in his dorm (like a resident advisor for the freshman on his wing). He will guide 31 Freshmen this year. Plus he’s working as a youth leader at a local church three nights a week, too. I have counted up at least 17 hours of working commitment that doesn’t include “taking care” of the kids on his wing— that on top of a full study load. He got a new X-box Madden game for his birthday, but I don’t know when he’s going to have time to play! He also is dating a lovely girl at another college, so I’m sure there will be some coordinated trips back to Dallas to see her.

Obviously, I’m proud of Connor. I’ve always had a soft spot for him. As a youngest child myself, I sympathize with him being the youngest child in a house full of oldest children that know how to get their way! Connor has done quite a nice job of standing up for himself.

Mark took this today so he isn’t in the picture. When I “develop” the pictures I got, I may put one of us with our birthday-celebrating nephew. We all met up at the Elite Cafe in Waco for a celebratory lunch. I’m so glad the boys are at college together and even more glad that it is accessible for us all. It’s Brandt on the right (a junior now at Baylor) and Connor on the inside by his Dad and Meema. I have some great pictures of Connor and Brandt trying on my lipstick and necklaces and others wearing my hat and carrying my flowers from the wedding. I’m saving those until I meet one of his girlfriends.

Family at the Elite

August 23, 2008

First Day

Filed under: At home, Family — Janice @ 11:57 pm

There is a hint of fall in the air, even though it is still summertime hot. But there is something that makes me want to get a new pair of sensible shoes, a Big Chief tablet, and fresh crayons. It’s time for the first day of school, whether that applies to you anymore or not. This was my first day of school:

My First Day

How can we tell that this is old-fashioned? Well, besides it being black-and-white? Yes, we are wearing dresses for the first day of school. I just don’t think little girls do that much anymore. Mackie was in 3rd grade so she was an old pro at this. I was in 1st grade (this was before the days of kindergarten being a requirement). That’s good ol’ school bus 39 coming around our front drive. And faithful Cindy, the German shepherd, standing guard while we waited.

My most vivid memory of that morning was that Mother had told me to get on the bus and take a seat. When I got on board, about two seats back was an older girl in a seat. I asked if I could sit with her. She said yes and I sat down, clutching my sack of school supplies, and probably rode in abject horror the rest of the ride. I don’t remember the ride. The next day, again, I think I got on board, asked the same girl if I could sit, sat, and rode silently to school. But on the third day, my sister told me to come sit with her in the back. That was probably the first time I had looked beyond those four front seats and saw that there were lots of empty seats back there and I could have a whole seat to myself there. So from then on I followed Mackie to the back of the bus and learned I didn’t have to just sit with that scary older girl.

I liked first grade. Mrs. Hicks was a wonderful teacher and we had lots of great books. Dick and Jane and Tip and Mitten became my best friends. We got a gold star for every book we read on a certain shelf. I was quite happy to have a solid row of stars before the year ended. Mrs. Hicks cut the chart apart so we could all take home our row of stars.

I hope every first grader that starts this week has a good teacher like Mrs. Hicks and feels as happy and loved at school as they do at home (well, and that they are happy and loved at home in the first place). And I hope they still get new shoes and a Big Chief tablet and crayons to start the year.

August 22, 2008

Music This Week

Filed under: Austin, Music — Janice @ 11:33 pm

I know I owe you a post. I saw some good music this week.

Hill’s Cafe was incredibly hot and humid this week, which takes away from the experience. There were lots of musician friend there and that added to the experience, so it balanced out. Michael Thomas opened the show. As far as I have seen, he doesn’t play around Austin much, so this was my first chance to see him. I liked his more traditional approach to country music. Traditional in the Dwight Yoakum way, not traditional in the Eddy Arnold way, if you know what I mean.

Ryan Turner was the headliner and it had been a year or more since I’ve seen him play. It was a good show and I’m glad he’s working on some new material. He did a lot of covers, which I guess gets the crowd interested, but I like when bands really play their own stuff at Hill’s. True, though, if I don’t know their stuff, I might let my attention wander if I don’t hear a good cover.

Thursday at Shady Grove was Marion Loguidice from New York opening up. She was a very expressive, unusual singer, who only began her career recently, though she is in her 40s. She certainly kept our attention and had some interesting songs. She did a cover of Georgy Girl that zapped me back to my childhood. I don’t know when I’ve last heard that song. I loved Petula Clark!

Shawn Sahm and the Tex-Mex Experience headlined and they are always fun and lively. All of the guys in the band (and wives and paarents, too) were lovely, gracious people. It is rare that I say that! They were very friendly and fun and entertaining. My mind was still on losing our friend Danny Roy Young so I was distracted, though.

Last weekend I saw the Jo’s House Band at Jo’s Coffee on Sunday and they were great. Tina was singing lead vocals (I had never heard her sing before) and Mark was playing drums. It was a fun afternoon. The last time I went to Jo’s I wrote that it was too crowded to really have that cool South Austin vibe going on, but this time it was much calmer, less people, cooler weather, and great fun. I hope to do that again.

The Friday before I saw Keith Davis at Midnight Rodeo. I hadn’t seen Keith with his full band and they were really good. I liked the keyboard being a main player and the blues songs Keith does. He used to be Brandon Rhyder and Kevin Fowler’s lead guitarist, but I’m glad that he is doing his own thing.

Sunny Sweeney headlined that show and it was fun seeing her on the big stage and hearing her new guitar player Cole. I think I prefer Sunny at Ego’s (but the music days are done at Ego’s now) or the Saxon and that smaller atmosphere. It was fun to be out at Midnight Rodeo again though. I hadn’t been in it in almost a year and I saw lots of folks that I knew. Mark even came out after he finished his gig so it was fun to see music with him.

The weekend holds a birthday party for nephew #2 on Sunday and lots of genealogy projects, too.

August 21, 2008

Sadness

Filed under: Austin, Music — Janice @ 12:40 am

I came home tonight, intending to write about the show at Hill’s, but Mark delivered sad news to me. Danny Roy Young, the “Mayor of South Austin,” passed away today from a heart attack. I am so sad. He was such a vibrant wonderful man. If you didn’t know him, I’m sorry you missed that opportunity. He was the owner of the Texicali, the rubboard player of the Cornell Hurd Band, and a great representative of this city.

I met Danny in Dallas at the Sons of Herman Hall one night over 10 years ago. We went to see the Cornell Hurd Band and just loved them. I don’t remember the circumstances, but there was some possibility that Mark might play with them (which he would have loved because of all the Western Swing they play). We introduced ourselves to Danny and he just was as talkative and friendly as if we had known him for years. We admired the gloves he had created for himself to play the rubboard, they had the spoons attached so he didn’t have to grip the spoons. He had created all sorts of “noisemakers” for his rubboard.

Once we moved to Austin I would see him playing with Cornell or see him out enjoying music all around town. He also would bring breakfast tacos to the station on Thursday mornings. For a short — unbearable — time, I did a morning thing at the stations and would see him then. He always knew me and was always so friendly.

I never ate at the Texicali enough, but it was fabulous food. My sister and I ate there one time when she was in town. We had ordered and realized after a while that it had been a LONG time that we had been waiting for our sandwiches. The waiter came by and was very nice, but he explained that they had had a very large phone order come in and that had delayed the kitchen. We had lots of time, so it wasn’t a problem for us. We saw them boxing up sacks and sacks of food and someone come in and take that away. We eventually got our food. About that time, Danny Roy came into the dining room and in full voice said, “People in this restaurant have been waiting too long to eat today!” and he started handing out money. He came around and flamboyantly put maybe two dollars on every table. It was an incredible display of goodwill. I have never forgotten that. He could have easily instructed the wait staff to deduct something off the ticket (or just ignore it all unless someone complained), but he was generous AND a showman.

Danny was just one of those creative spirits in Austin that you wanted to be in their orbit. You wanted them to be your friend. And Danny WAS your friend. I will never forget Danny Roy Young.

August 19, 2008

Grocery Stores

Filed under: At home, Music — Janice @ 11:16 pm

Mark bought himself some unscented Speed Stick deodorant at the CVS Pharmacy this evening. I’m sure you are relieved.

Carole responded to my post about the grocery stores and the advent of new cheaper stores that just stock milk and eggs and the necessities of a grocery. It has just made me reminisce about all the grocery stores I grew up in.

In Amarillo there was Safeway and Furr’s. The Furr’s was at 34th and Georgia is an auto parts store now and I’ve been in it so see if it feels at all like the old store. It doesn’t. That was where Mother and I were when we heard that President Kennedy had been killed. I have no memory of that moment, but Mother says a woman came rushing into the store, panicking, and telling people that the President had been shot. The manager said he would find out and he came back in a moment and let people know it was true. I do remember many of the events in the days after, but I don’t remember that moment.

The Safeway was at the corner of 34th and Western. It was closer to the house, but I think we liked the Furr’s better.

When we moved to the country, we still shopped a lot in Amarillo stores, but we would have to plan our grocery trips to rush straight home and get things into the freezer or refrigerator since it was a 20 or 30 minute drive. That would be the last stop. We also began to shop in Canyon at what is really a bygone thing, the hometown grocery store. The nicest one was Cooper’s. It was very small compared to today’s grocery stores, but had everything you needed. Mr. Blewett, the father of my classmate Tammy, worked there and it was always nice to see someone I knew from church working in a business.

Occasionally we would stop, just for milk or something small, at Crow’s or Jack’s groceries in Canyon. They were truly more like the convenience stores of today. No, they were too small to compare, really. I suppose some people may have been able to do all of their shopping there, but they were tiny stores and only had maybe three aisles. They were old-fashioned stores at the time, with wooden floors in Crow’s and a logo that looked like the crow in Hekyl and Jekyl.

In my day (as I find myself saying more and more), the clerks would take your items out of your basket for you and punch the prices into the big cash registers and only THEN would they go down the never-ending conveyor belt to the sacker. I loved the cash registers and loved when a clerk could punch four numbers with one quick punch, not even looking, then smack down on the big square beige button with the heel of her hand to make the numbers “register.” Mom would write out her check while this was going on, waiting for the final amount. Mom always wrote her check for more so she could get some cash back and no one ever needed to see a driver’s license. At Cooper’s, they even had blank checks from the First National Bank so you didn’t even have to have your checkbook with you when you came to the store. But we banked in Amarillo so I never got to see those blank checks in action.

After the checking was done, while the young man that was sacking was still putting everything into big brown paper sacks (with no other option) and putting them on the tall upright cart, the checker would dial, like a telephone, on her big trading stamps device and spool off dozens of big “10″ point trading stamps. In Amarillo, we got green stamps most of the time. S&H Green Stamps. There was also Gunn Brothers. In Canyon they were gold and I can’t remember what they were called. There was a time that it was fun to paste in the stamps into the books and see how many you could fill up. I delighted in tearing the stamps, the 1 point stamps, into individual stamps and pasting them one at a time. That soon got old and I was glad they came in 10s and you could paste down a strip at a time. But I still loved the feel of a thick, solid, book all pasted with individual stamps.

When scanners came along, I really missed the big registers and the punch, ching, punch, ching, routine. I always wanted to be a checker, but the scanners killed that enthusiasm. I hated it when prices were taken off of items, too. I LIKED having that purple 34 cents stamped on my soup can. Then you could also notice at home when the prices had changed. Hey! Tuna was 73 cents last week and now it is up to 80! And you could also fish around among the cans and find the ones that still had last week’s price and save a few pennies. On the other hand, with the scanning there are less mistakes and the items and their prices are all spelled out for you on the tape. We used to go home and say, “Now what could I have bought that cost $5 when I didn’t buy any meat?” and we’d have to think and study on it until we realized Mom let us buy a record album or something.

And yes, that was a huge difference back in the day. With those small stores, you’d think that they wouldn’t carry something like records, but they certainly did. You don’t see a selection of CDs in groceries anymore (okay, unless it is the megamart thing), but back then that’s where we got a lot of our albums. I vividly remember the record rack at the Furr’s in Amarillo and Mackie and I asking Mom if we could have “Meet the Beatles!” She let us have it and my life was changed! Later, it was 1975 and I read an article about the “Red Headed Stranger” album in Texas Monthly while I was at the dentist. I had to go to the grocery afterward and saw it there and bought it and took it home. Again, my life was never the same. I remember buying “Goodbye Yellow Brick Road” at Cooper’s and quickly getting it purchased and out of Mom’s sight so she wouldn’t notice the song titles that might not meet her approval (now I can’t even remember what song title I was worried about… The Bitch is Back was on Caribou and I certainly kept THAT one out of Mom’s hands).

Just to clarify, I don’t remember going to grocery stores with a wooden basket over my arm or having the meat man offer me a steak. That were modern, just less modern than today. Less crowded than today. Less busy than today. And a lot cheaper than today.

Greetings!

Filed under: Music, Uncategorized — Janice @ 3:16 am

Hi, how are you?

What’s shakin’, bacon?

How’s things in your world?

Hidy!

Howdy!

Howdy do!

Hey!

Hey hey!

Hey there!

Look at chu!

I’m sorry— I’m late, I have nothing to say, and I am sleep deprived, but I thought I should at least say hi today.

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and sure, now I think of something to write about . . .

Tuesday night, August 19, 9 p.m. central time, on ABC TV there is a Primetime: Medical Mysteries on spasmodic dysphonia, the disorder I have. Watch it! Learn about it! Help people you know that struggle to talk.

August 17, 2008

Men’s Deodorant

Filed under: At home — Janice @ 11:57 pm

I heard on a talk show this week about a new kind of grocery store that only stocks the items that people most need at a grocery and they don’t have a wide variety. Supposedly, 15% of the things in a grocery store bring in 90% of the grocery’s income. The new kind of store moving in is a small, drugstore-sized store that has milk, eggs, bread, etc., but not lots of different kinds. I like that idea, in theory. But I want my Health Nut bread, not just any whole wheat bread, and I do like my Cheerios.

Mark likes his Speed Stick deodorant unscented. That unscented if VERY important to him. Today I was at a little gig-let he had with the Jo’s Coffee House Band on South Congress. I told him I was stopping by a store on the way home. He said he needed deodorant. I was going for butter, so I knew any grocery would have that. I stopped at what I call the “Mexican” grocery because Spanish is the predominant language there and they have the biggest abundance of unusual vegetables that I assume go into Mexican foods I don’t know how to make. I wish I did. I like this store because it is very small and never crowded and I can get in and out in a hurry. I didn’t know if they would have the right variety of deodorant or not. They did not. But they had butter and lard (yes, I buy lard), so I got those and went on down the street to Walgreen’s.

Walgreen’s has a wide variety in the deodorant department, I discovered, but no Speed Stick unscented. There is “Fresh” and “Original” and others, but no unscented. So I decide Mark is just going to have to take what I get him this time, but I will find an unscented deodorant, just of another brand. I looked over this HUGE selection and discovered only one brand that had unscented. The others had “scents” or at least names that can’t possibly mean something to someone buying them. I can only imagine the meeting where the marketing team came up with “scents” called Phoenix or Swagger. True names, I swear.

Closet Digging

Filed under: At home, Family — Janice @ 12:29 am

Through the week I always think that great things will be accomplished here at the house if I just had the time to do it. Then the weekend arrives and I sleep the day away.

I have high hopes of organizing my genealogy a bit more. I visited cousin Paula last weekend in Comanche and her files and folders are all so neat and she can print off a document at a minutes notice because she has it all together. He has wonderful notebooks full of paperwork in plastic sleeves so it is all readable, protected, and in order! I want that. But my stuff is in piles and boxes and so disorganized. So tonight I decided to start the effort of getting it where it needs to be. But there is so MUCH of it all. I pulled out files from a cabinet in the garage, boxes piled around my office, scrapbooks, notebooks, more boxes, and sacks full from the closet. Genealogy in every nook and cranny. I divided it into some piles in the living room. Piles that quickly lost their meaning as family lines blurred. Then I look into the closet and see the big box of letters, and more piles of photographs. I don’t want to get in and divide THEM tonight, too, do I? No. So I pack it all up, place it all around, and wait until it frustrates me again.I still have such big projects going for the Cunningham reunion that there is no time to organize the rest of it.

One fun thing I did find tonight was a photograph. We have a sweet little photograph framed and up in the drum room of Mark as a toddler playing a little guitar (or maybe it is a plastic ukelele). Whatever it is, it is sweet and showed his musical bent from an early age. But I discovered (again) tonight that we have Mark’s baby book. And there I discovered where this whole thing began:

Mark with drum

I don’t know where the sticks are, but he looks quite pleased to be wrapped around that drum.

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