Slacker
Yes, that’s me. I am a slacker. I hadn’t really thought of myself that way until I had two reminders on the same day.
Sunday, I heard from my high school classmate Bryan. We’ve been good friends since 8th grade in Mr. Stocker’s science class when we were seated alphabetically for the entire year and got to know one another well. We went on to work together on the school newspaper in high school and were lunch companions at the “table” (that’s what we referred to our group as). Twenty years after high school we found ourselves both in Austin, oddly, and we continue to stay in touch, mostly by email, since he lives way up THERE and I live way down HERE.
Bryan sent an article about our classmate Alexis Hefley. The article, in the Dallas Morning News, tells the amazing and uplifting story of a group Alexis founded that helps children in Uganda called Empower African Children. Alexis has dedicated her life to educating these children and freeing them from the poverty and misery that overwhelms them in Uganda. What an awe-inspiring woman! I’m proud to have known her 30 years ago, although when I think of Alexis I mainly remember her playing on the basketball team. Go read the article and check her charity’s website and find a way to contribute to this wonderful cause.
So I had already been reflecting on my life and wondering about my long-lasting impact after reading about the thousands of lives she has touched. Then tonight I turn on 60 Minutes. They did a nice long profile and interview with Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia. Did you see it? A very interesting man and one that you might enjoy having a conversation with. I am watching it just because it is on and it is interesting and I have always had a fascination with the Supreme Court. Then they began talking about Scalia’s new book Making Your Case. They show the cover and I see the name of another high school classmate, Bryan Garner. I already knew Bryan had gone on to great things. He has taught at Oxford and while he was in law school he wrote a dictionary of legal terms that immediately became the ultimate on all things legal. Go see what he has written through the years. Bryan was the drum major while we were in high school and very active in band and such. Like Alexis, he wasn’t in my immediate circle of friends, but in a high school with just 225 seniors, we all knew one another pretty well. A very nice guy, there was no doubt he would go on to succeed in life, but who knew he’d be hobnobbing, writing, and arguing with Supreme Court Justices in just 30 years? Amazing.
I’ve spent five years at a job that I really did feel was a calling for me. Even if it was fleeting, I felt that I touched lives and if I made somebody enjoy their day a little bit more, then I was doing a service. More than losing the “celebrity” I have had, I miss that little bit of contact. My high school had a great bunch of kids that have grown up to do interesting and amazing things, though some with more spotlight than others. Some have had the spotlight you don’t want. At least one was a murderer, I know. I think it is interesting to hear about two of these classmates on the same day. I admire them both for their accomplishments and I was just teasing about me being a slacker. Slackers don’t have mortgages, car payments, and insurance premiums. I can only HOPE to be a slacker one day!
